Shaped by experience

Daily writing prompt
Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences or by who we are?

I used to believe in the idea that we shape our own futures, at least to a large extent, unless something catastrophic gets in the way. I read Ayn Rand and found her perspective appealing.

Then I had kids.

My children are so different that it’s hard to believe. From a very young age, they had distinct personalities, different strengths, and different abilities to focus on the things that interested them. I now believe that nature has a greater influence than nurture, even though nurture still matter a great deal and shouldn’t be underestimated. You may have a much higher odd of becoming a pro basketball player if you’re super tall but you won’t if you don’t put in the hours.

Out of cats

I’ve not previously featured the mighty hedgehog on my blog. We have at least two living around our building, somehow cohabiting with about a hundred cats. Hedgehogs seem to be less adapted to city living and very vulnerable to cars.

It’s hot outside

When driving in Sofia, it’s important to make enough noise before starting the car for any cats to safely leave. Kittens can even jump up and be around the engine, which can be lethal for both the cat and the car.